Interracial Dating Creating Blasians and Mixed People Everyday....

Black and white? Hispanic and black? White and Indian? Pacific Islander and European? Asian and white? The oh so many possibilities of the human race. Why is it that in the black community dating outside of your race has become such a taboo? I personally think it's funny because there are so many mixed African Americans in the community. How many light skinned African American people do you see upon a daily basis? Now think how many of them might have an Irish father or Jewish mother who has indebted them with some European culture. Interesting isn't it. The main issue is the ongoing debate, the black woman with the white man or the black man with the white woman. Is this ok? Is the white woman or white man really gonna understand what it is like to be black? No and never, but that's like asking the same question, "Will your partner ever understand what it feels like to be like in your shoes as a man or woman?" No never and I hope not, because hell I would be pissed if I found out my husband to be, was post-op.

Black men dating a white female hold the stigma, they are dating the white female because she is easy, a yes woman and its simple. No questions asked, sex on a dime, plain easy money. Black women dating a white male hold the stigma, they hate black man, dislike black men, can't get a black man or they don't want a black man. Stop the presses. Every scenario has it's different circumstances. The truth is its true in some relationships, black men do date some white women because they feel it is easier than holding down a strong black picky independent female. Black woman sometimes do date white males because they have given up on on finding the good black male in the species. It was interesting when researching that I also found interracial dating sites. Didn't know our community was taking it that far.....Now lets add my personal opinion....

1. Seems to me a lot of different cultures exist, what would it be like to experience a personal relationship with one who embodies one?
2. Aren't we all different for a reason........
3. It depends on your preference. I will date outside my race, but at the end of the day I'm hopeful but not limited to an African-American Male.

At the end of the day, I think its definitely ok to get your swirl on! As long as you know what you want, in the end its ok. Date away, because at the end of the day if you are are black and do decide to procreate "The tiniest drop of black paint into a bucket of white paint no longer gives you white".

In the remixed words of the "Big Tymers' "Everybody get your swirl on."

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